How to seduce a girl?
Be avoided whenever possible patterns - the main rule for men in the art dating!
"What is the weather today! Give me the phone, eh? "- Unfortunately, in our time that way get to know 90% of men - to the obscene primitive ... Um - is that women appreciate a man first and foremost, and the obvious question: "Girl, what's your name?" A stalemate of its squalor and straightforwardness. A little ingenuity - and you are interested in vending you special! Seen: a woman handing his business card, always make a good impression on her. Such an element of business ethics, applied in everyday circumstances, acts better than words, and satisfies a woman's curiosity.
7 styles of courtship
1. "Pigeon". Like a dove who care for a dove, take care of the woman defiantly, in front of everybody, not paying attention to others. Such behavior indicates the seriousness of your intentions at the same time stressing that how much you appreciate a woman.
2. "Short-term abandonment." After a long and active courtship of the woman, stop to visit her and call her for about 5-7 days. She will miss you! In such a situation a woman would reproach myself for coldness towards you, because I got used to male attention, she can no longer do without it! Yes and to answer questions spiteful girlfriends about your absence - not the most pleasant experience. "Threw" - shame, "chased away" - prematurely, we can only hope: can return? Typically, a woman becomes merciful when you return to it.
3. "Girlfriend". If you tell her not too interesting, then, actively courting her friend will dramatically change its attitude to you! Then everything around her start talking about you, and most of all, it touches her self-esteem! The desire to prove to her friends that she is not worse than them, and if she wants, then you will take care of it for her, not for someone who will force her to start active actions towards you. Most likely, she mused: "There is something there, since everyone is talking about it and try to find you a" flavor ", it is this idea and will be the beginning of great interest to your person!
4. The best option said above - this is exactly inspire best friend who is probably prozhuzhzhit about you all the ears you are interested in a woman. Emotions friends include her fantasy and imagination. You will become very much not indifferent to her. Explain to her as soon as you feel that the goal is reached!
5. "Sufferer". Another way to make her doubt his attitude towards you - is to elicit sympathy of those around her, constantly telling them about their suffering. Constant condemning accusations compassionate those close to her will make her reconsider their behavior. This technique is especially good when necessary to achieve the consent of the woman's marriage.
6. "Feeding". Women love gifts! Try at each meeting to give her flowers, nice trinkets, or something tasty that she loves (cakes, candy ...) Then she reflexively develop into a positive attitude to your presence and waiting!
7. "Unbelievable." The meaning of this method is the same as the previous, but instead of different items you are giving it to their attention (to admire it, talk a lot of compliments ...). Often such attention operates much more efficiently tangible gifts, especially in cases where there is material wealth, but no female satisfaction.
We bring to your attention the 9 variants dating in different situations:
Option 1. Choose a place where you can get in touch with the woman you are interested, and certainly a time when she would not be very busy. Great courage, the fairer half of humanity are not different, so have her to talk with you. After the set with her eye contact, give her some time to tidy up their appearance, and morale increased attention on your part. Try to loosen it by asking some meaningless question ... She should get used to your voice. Then try to talk about anything. Silence could destroy the already weak contact between you, so try to talk to her, the theme of conversation can be very banal. Speak in a manner in which you are best able to (a playful, tragic, meaningful ...). Do compliment her appearance, if after that she became actively involved in the conversation, the focus on her erudition. Casually telling about yourself, you humbly give a chance to feel your dignity. Visit to their life's difficulties - is quite possible that you will be able to awaken her maternal instinct. Introduce yourself, tell them your name and profession. Encourage her to walk, go to a concert or the theater. In case of refusal may ask: "And can meet tomorrow?" Refine the meeting and ask her to leave a phone number that you could easily find her. In the case of a categorical refusal to method, time-tested - leave it to his room ("Well, then take me, I beg you!"). Try to take her to the place to which it is directed. Purchase lightness and ease of dating can only be at a constant workout. Come into contact with strangers as often as possible, this will help you hone your skills dating to perfection. There are so-called training dating "on the complicated program" - ie, to meet people of your gender. This method is particularly recommended for men, as proven: men come into contact much harder than women.
In addition to a good workout, you will reward dating, socializing, and even friendships with interesting people!
Option 2. Have a flower. Before you start dating, give it a girl who is the object of your attention. Since a woman can not refuse to flower, then, taking the flower, it is to some extent become indebted to you for such a generous and beautiful gesture. This option is quite original, since only one of 500 men began dating in this way, so the success of virtually guaranteed! By the way, according to Freud, the flowers - a symbol of union of male and female. It is possible that this is why women are so fond of flowers, especially if they gave a man!
Option 3. Getting on the phone - the best option, if you're not ready for personal acquaintance. It is possible that day on the street, by reason of his employment, the woman just will not listen to you, but at home, in tranquil surroundings, she will not refuse to listen to you. Telephone help overcome the psychological barrier between you, especially if you are afraid not like the looks. At the beginning of the conversation and introduce some tell us about yourself. Certainly appreciate her voice as "nice", "ringing like a bell", "melodic", "exciting" ... Tell her about the beauty of her gesture movements that are afraid to come, but admire it from a distance. Call desirable when it is free, namely, in the evening, at the same time. Thus you will make it a conditioned reflex to your call, that he, like a good fairy tale a child at night, it was necessary at bedtime. Woman would be hard to deny you a personal acquaintance, in the event that you would still be able to draw her a sense that you feel for her. She will meet you, if only out of compassion!
Option 4. A rare opportunity to experience gives help to a woman (to repair something, or bring things to file, etc.). This version is almost a win-win! Firstly, because in our time these gentlemen who want to help women is negligible. In her eyes you will immediately become a "rare instance" that gives you a distinct advantage. Secondly, it is your desire to help her seduce her. Not excluded the option that at first you do not like you are interested in a woman, but its practicality and ability to exploit you force her to endure your presence. In this case you only one thing left - do not miss your chance, and try to arrange for her. Express anger and surprise of her attitude to her precious body, if she says she does not need your help. Say something like: "Do not even mind, you are so fragile ... You do not have to carry heavy bags ... You must have the husband does not take care ... "At the same time learn whether she is married. "I'll still help you, even if you get mad at me!" - Tell her something like this, even a very strong women love to be fragile! It does not matter deny it or not, you come into contact with it, but the main thing. Next, you need only to properly maintain a conversation.
Option 5. Meet in public transport. In today's world, you can often hear the popular belief that public transport is almost impossible to meet, say, the psychological atmosphere does not have to get acquainted. Categorically disagree. On the contrary! It was there that the easiest way to learn! Metro, bus, boat, places with high concentration of people well stimulate new acquaintances. Do not be afraid that your conversation can be heard by a stranger, a woman he does not become less enjoyable from that. If you did not dare to meet her in public transport, the place you stop can be a great help for your dating. In this case, apply anything from the above said.
Option 6. Cultural events. It is best to look for a woman to start such activities. Try to get in contact with the object of your attention, it is best to do it at the entrance or at the cash register. Proceed on the environment, or one of the above options. Try to buy her flowers, souvenirs, entertainment - anything from the fact that be possible, thus you show your generosity. After the event help the woman get dressed and take her to the house, exchanged phone numbers.
Option 7. Meet at the beach. Do not be afraid to sit down and talk with the girl, despite her indifferent face. Her loneliness is not talking in her favor, so lonely woman on the beach will always be glad to male attention. On the views of others to pay attention not worth it. Probably, other men would not mind doing the same, but you surpassed them. Women, in turn, probably just jealous rival. Beach - a place where conversations about women's charms are particularly relevant. Do compliment her seductive figure, amazing tan and soft skin. Attention! Beach - no more than a parade of the physical beauty of the body, both female and male. All clothing is not hidden strengths and weaknesses of constitution - there! Therefore, if you is not bad, but the more athletic sports figure, you simply must try to meet at least once on the beach. Interesting article, which you propose to read, and exchanged views about this article help you strike up a conversation and then dating. All women love crossword puzzles, so they can provide you with invaluable help in this situation. As already mentioned, women are primarily valued masculine intellect - so Be it! Treated her to ice cream or a drink, play cards ... The sand is convenient to play tic-tac-toe. " Any game - a convenient and affordable way to explore. The game reveals personality, remember that!
Option 8. dating at a restaurant, cafe, on the anniversary. Not recommended for long neglected you like a woman among the visitors to such events because they are the majority in a state of light intoxication. Otherwise, another man can take her out of your tray, using the excitement, including women in such cases and to remain without fear cavalier. The best way to heart of women in such places - "frontal attack". Do not give her time to recover, was invited to dance, express admiration for her appearance, movements, etc. After the dance ask her to dance with you once more, stay with her in front of everybody with a satisfied air. Most likely it's demoralizing to your "competitors". Your demonstrative gallantry and flowery speech will act on its relaxed liquor mind the most powerful way. Invite her to a friend for his table, to treat with champagne. You can learn more about the woman you are interested in a lot of interesting, and about myself too, if you can dance with her friend. Which is beneficial to hide one, it is always beneficial to tell the other. The evening will definitely be be continued if at least one of her friends was fascinated by you or your friend.
Option 9. A woman just bought for money. Confine ourselves to the following story, because this option is not for us the most interesting. Morning. A man comes to the mirror. Views: mug blue, his hair standing on end, saggy belly, ears, burdock, and one leg shorter than the other ... Looks back - in bed asleep leggy beauty. A man said reflectively: "It is necessary because money is love ..."