How are couples?

Excitement destiny can only envy, then, as she is able to connect and separate the heart - it's talent. In fact, constantly complain to the fate or thank her for that - the lot of insecure people. But sometimes it's unusual history, when on the person a little, that depends.

Here, for example, about dating, so to speak, meeting with destiny, as we choose our elected representatives?

Foremost among acquaintances that lead to marriage, dating is the places where, in fact, come to meet - at discos, clubs, sitting, anniversaries, birthdays, friends, etc.

Second place is occupied, so to speak, "dating service" - at work, at college, school or even kindergarten. Third place - meeting by third parties, that is, when someone is specifically trying to make a happy future married couples - friends, parents, relatives or even colleagues.

The fourth place you can put the most exquisite moods of fate, the so-called casual acquaintances who turn natural and legal relations.

And now have the opportunity to consider the standard and nonstandard examples of interference Her Majesty's Fortune in the lives of ordinary citizens.

Traditional knowledge

It's all very simple: come (to the party on a visit to a ceremony) - a good look - fell in love. But there is little mystery. "There were other girls, why do you pointed it at her?".

Men usually say: "She was very beautiful (very fun, very sad, very ...)». Clear. It is something stood out among others, and this "something" was in tune with his mood at the moment. And again: "We had a long conversation ..." (Actually, this means that she very carefully listened to and encouraged short phrases his long monologue.)

In the fairer sex getting harder and easier at the same time. Our attention was attracted by the man who "discreetly behave with girls", "first came to our company," "witty, and willing to listen to it all," can do something better than anyone (and this "something" may be able to sing well with a guitar or just the ability to closely monitor the dancing pairs).

Important! - "I felt that it drew attention to me." An interesting detail: every girl need to pay attention to it, and it hurts when a young man then switches to another. Then she would certainly try to bring the apostate, and if you can not secretly disappointed in him. But consider it thoroughly anyway. And remember. Just in case.

Another interesting detail: many suitors at his own wedding can not go to tell what color the eyes of the bride. Haircut on the day of dating can recall almost one hundred. Well, as it then was dressed, no one remembers. Although ... there are cases.

Office Romance

This technique uses the fate of even very willingly. "We have worked in one department ..."," I was a security guard, and every day, she walked past me through the turnstile, so I began to examine it ... "By the way," working "priglyadyvanie lasts usually a week, and even months. During this time, both candidates for the newlyweds manage to collect about each other all sorts of information. Then the "peepers" bored, and someone decides to take the initiative in their hands.

Usually a man is happy in the delusion that he makes the first move. But more often the exact opposite: she long ago felt the increased attention to yourself, good look, think things through and caused the desired situation. And nothing offensive is not here. Men can put off the decisive step just to get out of fear of failure - for their self-esteem it can be deadly.

"We studied at the same college, but in different groups. I asked him to help me make the exchange rate ", - says Olga. ("... To cancel the check, explain complex material, to clarify the disputed issue "- we may add). "I realized that it's not just because" - picks up Alex. "But it was you offered to bring my drawings to the house! And I ... "

The groom immediately agrees. Rather, he simply does not remember who someone is really behind him. And then is it so important?

Romantic dating

Romantic dating, where and how they occur, is in a separate subspecies. You never say what change can touch the heart of your future half.

To familiarity could be considered romantic, it is necessary to take into account what the heroes (and heroines often) think romance: meeting on Elbrus, the correct behavior of men in extreme situations or conversations on Feuerbach three nights in a row. Here are two stories that participants believe their romance.

Il was intelligent and intellectual. She loved classical music and loved to read French authors in the script and felt that he understood the painting. At one of the exhibitions at the Pushkin Museum she stood by the pictures, symbolically reflects the music of Brahms, effectively threw back her head, walked three steps (as expected), still stood and slowly moved forward, absorbed in thoughts on this very Brahms. After a few steps she was stopped by the nicest male baritone voice: "Do you like Brahms?"

And while Ira was in complete disarray on the exact reading of her thoughts, the young man had time to show off erudition, and a charming joke, and intrigue her. So much so that she forgot about his decision to never talk to strangers. The stranger turned out to be an artist, a handsome and wonderful husband.

Olga has recently started to drive and, of course, still feel insecure. And then one day she stopped at traffic lights and began to watch - if all she did right: correctly bent wheel on which the transfer is the machine, everything was in order for the window. And suddenly I felt a strong blow to the tail. "

It turns out that her car was completely on their own went back and crashed into a standing behind foreign car. It was her first accident, and Light did not know how to act in this situation. And sat behind the wheel until someone opened the door and asked politely if she is going to have something to do with this accident. The victim did not demand money for the damage did not cry, do not spread "about the women behind the wheel and generally behaved in an incredibly gallant. Had "out of gratitude" to marry him.

Meet with third parties

Interestingly would look at weddings poster: "I married myself - help someone." These words sound as a guide to action, if in a friendly company has at least one or two couples and some single friends. The main thing that candidates for the family liked the female block. And so women will find hundreds of excuses and intricate passages, to "accidentally" to organize the introduction, a walk, an intimate conversation.

Life boils, boils, and its consequences - marriage - is usually noisy and very cheerful. Such a "chain reaction" of weddings, once initiated, lasts 2-3 years, until, until all marry, well, except that some very staunch bachelor. But in any case for its fate continues to be responsible all the friends and all his wife's friends do not cease to hope that one day he'll realize all the advantages of family life.

And as godfather of one's child will become mandatory. In these formed family groups and divorce are much less common. Maybe because it is a serious quarrel one pair - a problem and a headache for everyone.

Parents (or immediate family) act as matchmakers when they begin to worry that their child has grown up, "sat", or when there is a very suitable candidate. Anticipates such familiarity is usually repeated a story about any object of his fate, nature and financial position.

Sergei and Alla pretty sick of each other in the absentee form, so none of them are not eager to meet in person. But on the anniversary of alkynes aunts, girlfriends Seregina mom, they were formally introduced to each other. Having spent the entire evening at one table, and plenty naboltavshis, they realized that for each other. I have not heard of the PA's wedding so often and sincerely thanks for your persistence and initiative of their parents.

Where you would find fate

That'll never know. "We met under the car!" - Proudly told me the couple. And it was so. Mache and mother had to urgently pass the railroad tracks, and, as luck would have it stuck a freight train - not to circumvent, or wait until will pass.

And they decided to take a chance and climb under the car. First crawled mom and ... stuck. Masha panicked, began to push it - no way. She panicked even more, mom, of course, too. And suddenly she felt someone pulling my mother, helping her get through, and finally, the joint efforts of someone in the front, middle and Masha's mom back were unsuccessful. When Mary herself appeared on the other side of the car, her mother has made friends with the "savior" and met with him and Mary.

Apparently, her battered, terrified and order, bedraggled appearance only gave it a charm in the eyes of Egor. What he soon confirmed in the registry office. It is this wonderful couple, said in her bridal treatment to all unmarried girls (married, if you will, too):

"We must always be ready to meet his fate - she has a peculiar sense of humor and the mass imagination." The main thing - do not miss your chance, no matter how absurd, strange, mundane or ridiculous it may seem at first!