Tuesday, February 15, 2011

Online dating: the goals, behaviors, rules

Online dating: the goals, behaviors, rules.

Some believe that acquaintance through the Internet - a silly and strange occupation. But we all know that this is not true. What is the process of dating online is different from dating through, say, a newspaper? In fact, nothing, only visitors online dating sites are much more advantages: most services network "pimping" is worthless, you can also just imagine what is called showmanship: show itself in all its glory, using for this your best photos .

But dating online has its own characteristics. If you still have not found the love of his life, listen to our recommendations, and we hope that Love will get into your computer network very soon.

Purpose - Serious relationship

Photo

Best of all, if it's none of your semi-naked body on a beach or a rigorous snapshot of the computer in the workplace. The most successful photography to explore the "serious intent" - in a quiet, homelike atmosphere in a chair with a cat on her lap. Or calm your smiling face.

Text

Well, of course, do not write: "Girls, I love you" or "I'm looking for you, because my life - it's solid work without joy." It is unlikely to respond to the call of Casanova or the clinical workaholic. Work - it is certainly good, but also about the joys of life must not be forgotten. Of course, if you do not want to get all the benefits of always is very busy spouse, your lady has found someone more cheerful.

Hooks

Here, of course, it all depends on what type of woman you'd like to see next to each other. Adjust it to your wave a few phrases, such as: "Beloved, I'll take a wander around Paris on the Champs-Elysees." Or "My dream - a bustling family and three little kids." Or here's another: "I can not imagine life without a hike." Hooks are required at least to immediately make it clear to the woman than can be filled her life with you. If you want to meet passionate melomanku not write a modest "I love music." It is better to use the words "Marilyn Manson devilishly interesting." Or "I made cry last album, Tori Amos."

Purpose - brief flirtation and romance

Photo

Ideal - your naked torso. Of course, if you have something to brag about. Or do you drive a car. No car? Y-yes ... Then seduce her big bouquet of flowers that will hold in their hands, or smile broadly. In general, make it clear that you are easy, fun, cute, is not seeking to impose its flaws, is able to give at least two weeks of fun and pleasure.

Text

Should not be particularly deep into the secrets of your personality. Short novel is a short novel. Customize it exactly for what it will be short, but tasty. Should not be honestly and openly say: "I need a girlfriend to an intimate relationship." Even if the woman herself is looking for just that, it probably will not like the fact that it simply will want. Important for women to certain emotional relationship, so think of Don Juan De Marco. He loved every woman who gave pleasure. She did not necessarily know that you just want it.

Hooks

In the course can go and promises to "pleasant evenings at sunset" and "coffee in bed in the morning." Remember that a woman will forgive you honest admission that you need girlfriend for "meetings without reciprocal obligations" if you are at the same time will behave as a knight in love than if you deceive her, and promised "mountains of gold in the valley of love and parted with her after one night, falsely saying good-bye "I'll call ..."

11 Rules of successful survey.

Snagged her gaze

Your application should be allocated. How do you do - you decide. Of course, the easiest way to corny like: "Man, Scorpio, looking for an attractive ..." Show your personality, think of something that will certainly attract your profile look.

Details - it's all

The form should be accurate, but not much expanded. Describe a specific, but brief. And, of course, it is better to focus not on the clothing size or eye color, and your characteristic traits, habits and desires. But do not be too pedantic approach to the issue. She will certainly be wondering what a cigarette in what time of day you prefer, or how much coffee you drink, when to work hard. But it is better to restrict the most necessary.

Letter only

Refer to the woman in the 2-person. If your application will be composed of 3-person ("Seeking a single woman with no housing and financial problems ...»), it, even if this woman sees that appeal not to her, and hence are not referring to her. Better to use wording such as "You - a gentle, cheerful, passionate and love the big dogs. So why do we still not together? "If she sees herself in your words, success is almost assured.

Buki not honored

Your profile is, of course, should not be totally frivolous. But make it only in a formal style is not worth it. Wink in her words, flirt, popliteus, more cunning. But in moderation. Be serious and hilarious. Good sense of humor has never failed anyone.

Mystery

Still, we should not forget that you are dealing with a woman. This may seem too simple, but some fraction of mystery makes us work emotional mechanisms of her soul. Nedoskazhite currently about 20%, give it to a little speculation and dochuvstvovat, and she realizes that with you she never bored.

Delicacy

You should not overcharge. Of course, I want to immediately exclude from the list you want to get acquainted with the full, ugly, stupid: But first, let it be known that 80% of women are not happy with her figure, even if you think they superseksualny. Also, your "limitations" may alienate excellent in all respects a woman who may seem that you have an unnecessary inferiority complex, because of which you wish to communicate only with a thin beauties

Great mighty

Literacy is generally not noticed. But ignorance can be seen immediately. Even if you write that you - "provided a good handsome businessman who dreams of a house in Switzerland, full of children and animals", but it will make at least two errors, a woman may question the level of your development. Do not forget also about style. And then get something, "I love my mother and dog, because she bakes the most delicious pies. Do not laugh, it's sad ...

Restraint

I mean, keep their sexuality. Of course, if your goal is not one - two intimate meeting, we should not balk at what you're passionate, sexy, can bring it to the madness, because it can be 10 times per night. Do not immediately make itself the image of frivolousness.

Truth, and nothing but the truth

Cheating is still revealed sooner or later. One should not spoil your chances are good acquaintance. (R & D has been linked to photography. In some cases - particularly for photos).

Brevity - not a sister

You should not use acronyms and abbreviations that can not be understood. Place on the internet enough, but she might think that if you were running an ad, it may be, and communicate with you just in passing.

Bad form

Even if you're serious, do not use the application form the word "marriage." Because this word has more than one meaning. And second, not very good for the questionnaire on a dating site.

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