The reasons for the disappointment of dating online?

On the planet, probably will not find a man who would not dream to meet that belongs only to him, only one-half. Mate, which is ready to share a sincere and ardent love together to pass through the remainder of life in the joys and sorrows. Where to look for and where to find someone with whom so want to share the love? In the cafe? The restaurant? At the disco? On dating sites? In this age of possible contacts and connect the two halves into a whole have increased significantly because of the numerous dating sites. For many men and women view the completed questionnaires, select vending photos, find out the interests of the future chosen, the criteria on which he chooses a life partner, and associate with them, to correspond with the liked man turns out to be easier than in real life to start dating. And his only chance to meet is a lot more. Closure of the space in which the modern man, limits the number of new appointments. This is just one obvious reason for such a high popularity of online dating sites today.
So why then is not uncommon for a sufficiently large list of candidates for your hand and heart at the end of search there is not one worthy of your attention?Why do so many disappointments and suffering men and women bring their attempts to find your soul mate at dating sites?
We consider the real situation that arises when a new questionnaire on dating site. Hopefully, after analyzing the described circumstances, not be easy to avoid mistakes made before us. Of course, we admit our own mistakes, but the "old rake" will try not to attack.
On a dating site registered girl or woman, filled the questionnaire, posted his best photographs. As a rule, the new female form is of great interest. The overwhelming number of messages spilled to the address, probably a little surprised, but certainly, buoyed by the success of representatives of the better half of humanity. Of course, such a stream of letters she had not expected. The vast mass communications it inspires and encourages, but also blurs the senses. What remains to do a girl or woman who does not have time to answer all write to her? She hastily began to sort letters: distinguishing bright, interesting companions, and without thought or hesitation rejects less expressive of the authors. But haste and categorical, as is known, not the best advisor. The following error - instantly have new excessive demands for the future elect. Before the eyes of floats, created by her imagination of the ideal man. In an instant, self-esteem has grown up to heaven, does not allow a realistic assessment of their capabilities. Somehow slipped from the memory of that expectation is equivalent to a fantastic ideal waste of time. And the woman herself, as every person living on planet Earth, far in some way from perfection. Therefore, during a personal meeting the real image of a man and a visionary ideal is not the same. This implies a mutual frustration, anger and pain.
Man, reshivshiysya fill out a questionnaire on a dating site, with a small number of responses. One of the biggest mistakes made by representatives of the female half - of their passivity, which is pending when the man noticed the first draw attention to it. But since you can wait for years, and the search for happiness will become inactive and inoperable expectation desire. For a strong half of humanity out of this situation is a private letter-writing visually pleasing a woman and attempt to engage with them dating. But even here there are certain obstacles. The first obstacle lies in the fact that the number of boys and men registered on dating sites is much higher number of girls and women. As you can see, the male is very competitive. Inflated demands by women for future elected representatives, complicate the process of dating. And it contributes to discontent and anger on both sides.
Is there a general way out of this situation? Certainly there are. Do not stop at the first failure. Write, write, write, after a new acquaintance is always interesting. Strive to communicate and new meetings. The more applicants for the future elect to honor you with their attention, the more likely to find in the rough stream of candidates for the half. Good luck - my sister imagination!
Patience, tolerance, respect for one another, a realistic assessment of their capabilities and reasonable requirements for a candidate to your heart and hand will bring you luck.
Your happiness will definitely smile at you!